Molly

"Good times, noodle salad"

One tiny, humble opinion that means nothing.

I have decided that I'm not going to post pictures, political affiliations or opinions on my FB site any longer. All it does is cause strife and I don't like strife. However, this is my personal blog and no one really reads it anyway so here goes...

I do not have experience in economics or political science. I do not believe that GW did everything right...I do not have the knowledge or experience to debate extensively about our political / governmental situation, but like everyone else, I'm entitled to my opinion- right or wrong.

Perhaps I'm "RIGHT", but explain to me what is bad about being RIGHT…This is my affiliation, preference and, not always, but best represents the values I hold true. Ask anyone who knows me- I love to be right...but most of the time I'd choose happy over right.

BTW- I am NOT a high-income household! I pay my bills, pay for fun, pay for my children’s needs, make my mortgage payment, pay for insurance, pay my taxes, do not take advantage of government programs and...wait for it...do NOT believe the government or anyone else owes me a damn thing. I am still in the same house that I’ve been in for the last 17 years, have debt and a job to pay for my needs and debt.

I don’t believe anyone owes me a bigger home, new television, health insurance, food on the table, heat in my bones, cell phone or anything else, and I’m SICK AND TIRED of people who believe America’s government owes them these luxuries and more. I have no interest in seeing children suffering because of illness or circumstance but I do not have compassion for people who believe they are owed something for nothing.

Many immigrants to this country had social and economic situations that were less-than-ideal, but what did they do? They pulled themselves up by their boot-straps, learned the language, adopted the culture, worked their asses off and supported themselves and their families. They did not fly the national flags of Italy, Ireland, Germany, etc. and demand services and support. What are the statistics of the current constituents and their social status? My guess is it is not small business owners or folks who've built considerable wealth for themselves. Why is it that these people should be punished because they have built something for themselves?

I am not an expert at all but am just offering an opinion. Everyone is entitled to an opinion- ESPECIALLY WHEN IT AFFECTS THEIR INCOME & PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL SECURITY.

Flight Peace.

I was on a flight yesterday coming back from a conference in Florida, and was fortunate enough to be seated next to Lama David Bole of Gainesville, FL.

I must admit I was quite intimidated at first- not sure what to say to him, does he even speak? (don't worry, this question came up later once I had warmed up!) I pulled out my book and did what I always do on a plane- put my face in it. Then...my curiosity got the best of me and I leaned over and told him that I am in the middle of reading "Eat, Pray, Love". He laughed and said "you and every other woman in America" (apparently I am way off base because here is a monk with a sense of humor- pray tell!) Anyway, I then commented on the prayer beads on his wrist (Malas?) and that was the beginning of what I am sure was a very painful flight for this man, as I never shut up or stopped asking him questions from Atlanta to Omaha.

Lama David will be at the Omaha Healing Arts Center the rest of this week and beginning of next and I am hoping to attend his meditation session. He is the most interesting person I've met in a very, very long time and I am honored to have spent time with him and take away a little bit of his wisdom.

Thank you Lama David.

Madison Lee

Welcome to the world my little baby niece, Madison Lee Nelson! Arriving 7-22-10 at 3:13 pm...weighing in at 6lb 10oz :) Madison's mommy, daddy, brother and sisters are very excited! Congratulations Todd and Jenny- we love you!
She does look quite a bit like Todd- especially when her mouth is wide open...that gene runs deep...

mudder

Happy birthday to my mudder! Cranberries Ode to my family to you on your special day...makes me crack up every time I think about the first time you heard it with me. I love you :)

Faith

How hard it is to trust in something intangible, believe in something that holds no guarantees, hope for something when you can not foresee the outcome?

Through my not-so-infinite wisdom and experience I have learned that faith is simply acceptance of what may be. It allows me to function without fear and wholly believe that what will be will be- for a purpose.

I find today that I must lean on that faith like a crutch- maybe two, in order to get through. The love I have for this child fills me, but I am caught between anger, guilt, grief, fear, compassion, hope...round and round I go.

My hope for you, child...to be free of your burdens and carry peace in your heart. To learn to appreciate yourself and to find out who you are- and that that person is good. To be of service to those who need it so that you can feel "high" through giving. To learn that no matter how difficult it is to make the choice at the fork in the road, the path of "right" is always the easiest path- even if it doesn't feel like it at the time. To sleep well and soundly every night. TO BE HAPPY.

I love you with all my heart- my son.

Memorable moment

My brother Todd: "I want to know when the hell my life turned into an episode of Cops??
Me: "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!"
Todd: "It's not funny Kristi."

Why are you here?

Let the crazy begin...I feel very Soho like I should have a cigarette and a glass of wine or an espresso, listening to a little poetry reading and snapping my fingers like a coffeehouse ho. Actually, none of those things sound too bad to me right now.

A little bit about me that you won't get from the silly little profile template. I love the color red. I do not like green peppers but love red peppers (curious). My favorite perfume is Coriandre By Jean Couturier and when I spray it it reminds me of my mom...love you mom. I have three kids- all of whom bring me more joy than I believe one human being deserves, and I have one husband who sometimes brings me joy (jk Jeff). I actually do love my job and I am fortunate to work for people who care about me too. My BFF initials are P.L. and if I could be any superhero I would be Buffy the Vampire Slayer because she has great hair even after she's been in a huge battle.

I have always wanted to be on stage (since I must always be the center of attention, this will not surprise those who know me). Since chances are pretty flipping slim at this point, I've decided to write a stupid blog to get my 15 minutes.

Thus the question- Why are you here?